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What you are feeling is creating your life.

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Have you ever felt like you were in a rut? Or that you have been in a rut for a long time? It’s almost like you have been getting deeper and deeper into the rut as well? 

You think how you feel. 

Then you act how you think. 

And your results come from your action. 

So therefore, if you feel crappy, you think crappy, actions are crappy, and therefore your results are crappy. And the cycle starts again because you will feel crappy with your results. 

When you feel crappy, sometimes the resulting action is not action at all. 

So what’s the cure? 

Decide not to feel crappy. That’s it. 

So many people blame how they feel on other things.  When how you feel about something is actually the one thing that others have no control over.  They can’t control what you think.  They can’t control if you get angry.  They can’t control if you cry.  They can’t control if you laugh or smile. 

So how do you start feeling less crappy?  

Start the cycle with doing something that creates value for both you and others.  Once you start the cycle of doing something that is valued, your results will be valuable, and once those results come, you can’t help but feel valued, and want to do, you got it…more.  And what will doing more of what makes you happy do, it will put more value into the world.  The cycle just started with something that meant you doing the action.  Being motivated by the action itself, is what will create the positive experience. 

By putting positivity and light into the world, you are also attracting it.  And when you attract it, you exude it.  

It just needs to start somewhere.  It first starts with reflection. 

Where are you?  Where do you want to be? What do you need to do to win for you and your family? 

And go do it, because it WILL MAKE YOU HAPPY.  Then let go of where you are, because you can’t move, unless you let go. 

Think about that.  If you are still holding onto where you don’t want to be, then you will stay there. 

Yes, it will be hard.  Yes, easier said than done. But you and your family deserve more. You all deserve your happiness. But you need to decide that you have to let go of what has happened. Learn from it, then move past.  WAYYYYYY past. 

 

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